Why? Why did ya’ll do that? I knew he was leaving but srsly?

Signed,
A Sad Sad Fan

I told you I had a ton of shit go on this weekend. There was no way I’d be able to put everything into one post. I feel bad enough that the Concert post was a mile long. Do you guys like the whole post out in the open or do you like when people use the “read more” thingy? Let me know!

So during the concert Saturday night CMM sent a text asking how my group date was. I was wondering if he knew or not and turns out he did. This means he was either reading all my Myspace surveys or stalking my AIM Away Messages. I told him it was OK and might have said something along the lines that I would’ve rather spent the time with him. Yes, I went there. We kept texting and was invited up to his place. Now keep in mind, it’s not some 20 minute drive. He lives near my Aunt in PA which is about an hour drive. I kept going back and forth about going up. I mean, it was midnight and that’s a long ass drive. I finally told him yes and to make sure he had the futon ready because I was not going to be driving home the same night.

Turns out I didn’t need the futon at all. I ended up staying in his room, in his bed with HIM. That was the first time I’ve stayed over. I’ve tried once before but it didn’t happen. He’s offered the spare room before but I was staying at my Aunt’s and that’s only a 10 minute drive. Plus who the hell wants to sleep on a futon? I’d rather sleep on couch or even the floor. The best part is the fact it didn’t feel awkward at all, even in the morning. Ya’ll know how it can be weird sometimes, especially the first time staying over with someone. You pull one of those “Oh, look at the time!” lines and get the hell out. That didn’t happen. We laid in bed and talked. It was really nice.

I’d like to think that all of this meant something, even a little something. He’s not one to have girls stay over all the time, or at all really. I mean, he even let me borrow his clothes to sleep in. Of course I could just be trying to make it mean something since I’m a girl and we do that sometimes. I think it’s genetics. Plus this was the 2nd weekend I was up there. I went over when I was dogsitting to watch a movie. See, I keep rambling trying to add more to support my case. I should be a lawyer!

No matter how this all ends up though, I do feel like I have a good friend. The only thing that could’ve made it better though was if we had sex, real sex but maybe it’s a good thing we don’t.

Saturday was the big Kenny Chesney Stadium concert downtown. First, guess how much I paid for the tickets. Go ahead, guess. Nope. Not even close. $60. For Two. That’s only $30 a ticket. On Ticketmaster our seats were $115 a peice! I managed to snag the tickets via Ebay on Thursday but believe me, I was paranoid the whole time thinking something must be wrong because no way in hell would someone sell these tickets that for that cheap. Obviously though everything was fine!

We made our way downtown around Noon. The local radio station had a small stage set up outside that had smaller acts like Phil Stacey. Remember him from American Idol? I didn’t either but he was pretty good and he was great to his fans. He jumped off stage and would dance around with us and everything. It was pretty awesome. I think he made some new fans that day. I just hope that if he does get big and make it that he doesn’t lose his fan friendlyness. Did I spell that right? Should it be an “I” instead? Whatever.

The first act to hit the stage was Gary Allan who I love. I really want to see him again. I missed some of his set because we were outside for Phil Stacey. He looked pretty hot in his sunglasses though and I even took some video of him. I think he’s the only one I took any video of actually. I believe the next act was Leann Rimes. She was pretty good. She really won everyone over when she put on a Ravens jersey. She did a few of her own songs and then some covers. Sammy Hagar was due up next but he pulled out because he was sick. That’s what they said anyway. Big & Rich were after Leann and I.Love.Then. I need to see them again too. They even had Cowboy Troy with them! They broke their guitars and rocked out.

After Big & Rich it was time for Brooks & Dunn. Now, I like them but I get annoyed at the fact that they win all the Duo Awards every year. Sometimes I don’t think they even release anything and they still win. I mean, there are other duo’s out there! Of course it’s not their fault but still. They performed some older and newer stuff. They played mainly their upbeat stuff like “Little Miss Honky Tonk” and “Boot Scootin’ Boogie.” I’m glad they went that route because I’m not a huge fan of their slower songs. They really did put on a good show though. I think I’d like to see them again, maybe.

Kenny was obviously the last act to hit the stage. We only stayed for a few songs. I know, I know but it was a long ass day and I was done. I’ve seen him before and all. Plus since we took the Light Rail down we were worried it would be extremely crowded after the concert. Seriously, we were the only people on it! I just hope I didn’t miss anything too exciting by leaving early.

Now, I know you’re probably wondering about the title of the post. I shall explain. Ladies, you know the number one issue for us at sporting events/concerts are the bathroom lines. They move slow and are 15 miles long. I’ll never understand why it takes people forever to piss but that’s another post. Needless to say, some of us woman started to use the men’s room. In fact, the men were telling us to do it! They felt sorry for us and the long lines we had to deal with. Little did we know it was enough to get your ass kicked out. Misty got busted in the boys room and they wanted to kick her out. They took her license and some Stadium Authority guy was writing her up a ticket! Of course she’s in tears and asking for a warning. All the guys were trying to help out too. I think they busted 4 or 5 women. I have no idea how I didn’t get snagged. She’s begging and pleading with the guy when he walks away and hands the information over to a real officer. Thank goodness he did because he gave her back her stuff and told us to just walk away and don’t look back. He said he’d tell whoever that he escorted her out. She wanted to thank him but I grabbed her and started walking. If a cop says walk away, you walk away!

So ladies, take this as a warning. As tempting as it is to use the no line mens room, don’t do it!

I have a ton of stuff to talk about from the weekend but I didn’t want to keep you guys waiting anymore about the group date.

I think it was pretty well. I actually got to talk to The Congressman and learn more about him. He works at the airport and plays Xtreme Frisbee. He seems like a pretty nice and funny guy. I’m not sure if I like him yet though. I think I need to hang out with him a few more times. Plus the night got a little crazy because of Caron’s now ex-boyfriend. Dude got fucked up, seriously. You couldn’t even understand a word he said, he could barely walk and this guy is tall as hell. It took 3 of us to help him back to the car. Looking back, we should’ve just left his ass in Canton. In the car he was mumbling, being a jackass to Caron and then…he smacked her. I swear, this was the most awkward car ride ever. It wasn’t like an accidental smack from throwing his arms around or anything. It was on purpose. Of course she started to cry, the rest of us are looking at each other like “WTF do we do?” (They were in the front seat with the driver and the rest of us were in the back).

We finally get back to her house and she wanted him to leave right there. As much as we all wanted him out, he was in no condition to drive. I don’t care if he hurts himself but he would’ve killed someone else trying to drive in his state. We stayed at her house until 3am to make sure everything was going to be ok and that nothing bad happened. She let him stay on the couch and in the morning told him to leave. He claims he doesn’t remember anything, including hitting her, but he wanted to talk about it. Of course she tells him how can you talk about and apologize for something you don’t remember doing. She had been wanting to break up with him and well, she got the perfect out and finally did it.

As you can see, even though it wasn’t as awkward as trying to get to know someone at a Murder Mystery Party, it was still a pretty odd night. We all kinda left in a hurry and didn’t even exchange phone numbers. I wish I had more to report on the whole reason for the group thing but I didn’t get much. I’m still feeling this guy out.

If I remember anything else though I’ll be sure to add it. I never got a chance to recover from my Friday night drinking b/c I started drinking around Noon on Saturday at the Kenny Chesney concert but Saturday is whole notha post, trust me. Saturday night got pretty interesting. Needless to say, I’m writing this post while hung over.

That’s right. Tonight I have a group date with “The Congressman.” My friend Caron set the whole thing up. It’s going to be pretty relaxed. I think we’re just going to some bars downtown and maybe play some pool.

I’m kinda excited. I haven’t been on any type of date in awhile. I’m nervous too though and I’ve been trying to figure out what I’m going to wear for the past two days. It’ll be nice to actually talk to the guy though since our first meeting was a bit odd with the whole Murder Mystery thing. It’s hard to talk to someone when their character isn’t supposed to be around you!

Of course I’ve covertly let CMM know about this little set up. I haven’t come out and said anything but I’ve mentioned it on Myspace surveys and in my Status bar. It’ll be interesting to see if I get any texts from him tonight.

I’ll try to make a post this weekend about how everything went but it might not be until Sunday. Saturday I’m either going to the Kenny Chesney Stadium Concert OR going to the Mom’s Day Cook Out at my Aunt’s. You’ll just have to sit around biting your nails and wondering until Sunday.

I’ve mentioned before that I’ve wanted to do a sexy/flirty photoshoot. It wouldn’t be for anyone special, just something fun and different. When I first thought of the idea I started looking around, really not knowing where to even start. I did manage to find a photographer who did these kinda things and was at the time a DJ at a local radio station. The only problem was the pricing started at $600. I don’t know about you, but I don’t have $600 to spend on something like this. Slowly the idea faded away just like most of my ideas.

Well, the idea has been put back into play. I’ve mentioned my striperobics classes and like most places these days, they have a Myspace. Through their Myspace I found a local photographer who specializes in these kinda things. His name is Dan Haga and judging from his portfolio and website, he knows what he’s doing. The best part? He’s affordable. He has one package that starts at $60 but I’m thinking about going with the $200 package which includes:

-4 hours professional photography in studio or on location
-Unlimited looks/outfit changes (within 4 hours)
-12 full size retouched images ready to print (mailed to you on DVD)
-12 web quality copies of photos listed above (mailed to you on DVD)
-You get all original images and unlimited use of images for making your own prints and enlargements etc. (mailed to you on DVD)
-Hair/makeup artist available (add $40)

I love the fact I can add the hair/makeup onto the package. I’m all over that since I know jackshit about hair or makeup. I like the unlimited outfits as well. You never know how something is going to translate in a picture and by having the option to squeeze in as many outfits as you can, it betters your odds of having some awesome photos. I really have no idea when this is going to happen. Hopefully it’ll be before the end of the year. Since all my credit cards will be paid off next month, I think this would make a nice little gift to myself. I deserve it. Now I just need to think about outfits and I’m open to suggestions!

If you’d like to check out some of his work just click here. Some photos do include some nudity. Just thought I’d warn you (and give the guys something to look at).

This past weekend I was dogsitting in PA. I think I mentioned it? Anyway, CMM only lives about 10 minutes away from my Aunt & Uncle. You can see where this is going. Around 11pm on Saturday he sent me a text saying he thought I was up that way this weekend. I told him I was and he asks why I wasn’t there! Hello, I didn’t know I was supposed to be there. I’m not a mind reader. Needless to say I headed over to his place and we watched “Fever Pitch.” I thought it was a pretty cute/funny movie. I hadn’t seen it before and I like Jimmy Fallon. We cuddled on the couch, which I love to do, and played around. The funny thing is he mentioned that he almost went to Alantic City. I asked if he was going to go with a friend and instead of just saying “Yes” he went on to explain how it was a girl friend of his but she’s married and he’s known her from High School and blah blah blah. I thought it was kinda odd because really, I didn’t need to know all that. I wonder why he felt the need to almost explain himself? Anyway, I didn’t get back to my Aunt & Uncle’s until about 2:30am.

Then on Sunday I went to the Towson Festival with Vicki. I had never been before and it was fun. It was a beautiful day and it was something different to do. It was like a big street fair basically where they shut down numerous roads and they had bands, vendors and crap. I actually ran into my SPCA Volunteer Manager who told me that Beeno and AC (the dogs my Aunt & I walked at the March) were adopted! I was excited to hear the great news! I kinda thought they had been adopted because they weren’t on the website anymore but it was good to get accurate information. I think we stayed there for about 2 hours or so. During that time I got to meet my favorite commercial personality of all time…

That’s right. The Gecko. As talkative as he is in his commercials, he’s pretty quiet in person!

May is a good month for extra money. Monday I *should* be getting my $600 Stimulus Deposit which I’ll be putting towards my credit card. I can stimulate the economy later but first I need to take care of my debt. Thanks to the Stimulus Deposit and the regular payment that goes towards my card, it should be paid of next month. How amazing is that? That means next month around the 13th expect a big ass “I’m Debt Free” post!

Along with the Stimulus, I’ll be getting almost $100 from Ebates. Seriously, if you shop online be sure to sign up for Ebates. It all adds up quickly, especially if you get other people to join. My last payment was $151 because I was able to get a shitload of people to sign up. If you have any questions about Ebates just leave a comment or send me an email and I’ll try my best to answer them!

I made some cash this weekend because I’m in PA dogsitting while my Aunt & Uncle are away at a Navy thing. It’s just $60 and I’ll probably end up using that for a hair cut. I’m in need of one, especially since I just colored my hair black again. I need a cute cut to tone it down a bit.

Anyone else rolling in extra cash this month?

That’s what one of my teammates told me yesterday. I had a shitty game. I screwed up easy plays. I made a horrible throw to first. I dropped two balls that were thrown to me at second. I made the last out of the inning at 3rd which is a big ass “No-No” in baseball/softball. Plus someone coughCMMcough wouldn’t throw the ball to me at times. Instead he’d try to be Mr. Superstar and attempt to make the harder play or do it all himself. Fucking ball hog.

As you can tell I’m highly upset at myself for having such a shitty game. I have no idea WTF was wrong with me. I know everyone has off days/nights but that doesn’t make it any better or easier to deal with. I know it’s just a game but it’s a game I enjoy and that I’m normally good at. I did have a few good hits but that doesn’t change the way I feel about my fielding.

The only good that came out of our loses was the other team bought us two pitchers of beer and I ran into a guy who looked like a hotter Johnny Knoxville. The bad news is he’s married. The other good news is I used being pissed off, bruised and sore as an excuse to call out of work today. Hey, if you have the time, use it!

The IT guy at work was able to fix my computer! He had to run some scans or something. He did tell me though he isn’t sure how long it’ll last. That’s not a surprise. Like I mentioned before the thing is about 6 years old. I’m going to put off getting a new PC but I am going to buy an external hard drive to put all my pictures and music on. If anyone can recommend one it would be greatly appreciated. I’ve started looking around but I have no idea what brands are better or whatever. I did find one that’s 500GB for $119 which sounds like an awesome deal. What do you guys think?

I don’t have any updates on “The Congressman.” I did find out his real name is Jim though. Hopefully I’ll have a free weekend soon and Caron (the friend who had the 20’s party) can set up a group outting or something. I’m kinda excited! I know someone asked (Luna maybe?) if the party was fun and it was! It was a little odd at first but once everyone got into it things got better. I felt even more odd though since I didn’t know anyone except for Caron. I didn’t take any pictures but she did put some up on her Myspace. Maybe I’ll steal one or two to share with you guys. I do know that she found all the stuff online somewhere and that they had ideas for different themes like the 80’s and 50’s and what not. I just threw that out there incase anyone was interested in having their own party!